30 questions to identify your thinking patterns
Thinking patterns are hard to see because they feel like reality rather than habits. Good questions make them visible. Use these over a few weeks to build a clearer picture of how your mind works.
How to use these questions
Choose one group of five questions per week. Answer briefly in writing, using specific recent examples. At the end of six weeks, look for themes: the same concern, reaction or bias appearing across different groups. Those recurring themes are your most important patterns, whatever your Enneagram type.
Attention: what you notice
- What do I notice first when I walk into a new situation?
- What kind of problem do I spot before others do?
- What information do I tend to ignore?
- What worries repeatedly capture my attention?
- What do people say I focus on too much?
Decisions: how you choose
- What do I rely on most when deciding: principles, people, results, feelings, information, risks, options, instinct or harmony?
- Which decisions do I make too quickly?
- Which decisions do I postpone?
- Who do I consult, and why?
- What did my last regretted decision teach me?
Avoidance: what you steer away from
- Which feeling do I most try to avoid?
- What conversations do I delay?
- What tasks do I find reasons not to start?
- What would I least like others to see in me?
- What do I do to escape discomfort?
Stress: how your thinking changes
- How does my thinking change on a stressful day?
- What thoughts become louder under pressure?
- How do I behave that surprises people when I'm stressed?
- What helps my thinking return to normal?
- What early sign tells me stress is building?
Bias: where your reasoning slips
- When do I assume I know what others think?
- When do I see things as all-or-nothing?
- When do I overestimate risks or underestimate them?
- When do I stick with the familiar despite better options?
- When do I seek evidence that confirms what I already believe?
Growth: what could change
- Which pattern costs me the most?
- What would I do differently if that pattern loosened?
- What small experiment could I try this week?
- Who could give me honest feedback on my progress?
- What have I already changed successfully in the past?
Reflection question use
How do I identify my thinking patterns?+−
Answer structured questions with specific examples over time and look for recurring themes.
How often should I reflect?+−
A short weekly session is usually enough to notice patterns.
Can these questions help me find my Enneagram type?+−
They can reveal attention and avoidance patterns that point toward core motivations.
What if I don't see any patterns?+−
Ask someone who knows you well to review your answers.
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